I just saw this thing on some girl's xanga, and I HAVE to comment on it:

"amazes me how far you can push someone away but still find them there at the end waiting for you. i didn't think i'd deserve anyone who'd do that for me. usually that wouldn't be the case. makes me wake up and realize how lucky i am to know that i'm not alone. however i learned that when i do encounter these doubts again i will need to handle it on my own. i just know now that whenever i may need anything, people will be there for me. thats just great!!"

[rant]RULE NO.1...or maybe number 2....well, anyways,
IMPORTANT RULE GUYS!
When you get dumped, GET THE FUCKING HELL OUTTA THERE QUICK!
JUST RUN!
No matter how much you still care for the person.
You'll end up being a friggin' teddy bear.
And a teddy bear is the fate of a fucking Nice Guy.
I should know, I think I'm branded as a Nice Guy.

A Teddy Bear is someone a girl goes to for comfort, that's all.
It's the equivalent of being used and tossed aside for another time.

Which leads me to the GOLDEN RULE.
Guys, pay close attention...
NICE GUYS FINISH LAST!
BE AN ASSHOLE AND YOU'LL GO FAR!

Here is a Diagram to further help you visual learners:



Note that there is a lot of ASSHOLE-NESS till one gets to the "imprisoned" part.
However, on the opposite end, if you be nice, at all, you lose.
The other side has more chances and more margin for ASSHOLE-NESS than the nice side. [/rant]

Well, whatever. Guys, do what you will. But do know that all this is all so true.